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Who...Me?


 <--- This is me... Ashley.

I tend to fail miserably when I try to describe myself, so I'll let other people do it for me.

...as soon as I get some people to answer my texts.











Who other people say I am:


"My favorite teacher..." --Random Five-Year-Old


"...simply amazing!"    --My Boss


"Sister without a cause?"  --My Confirmation Sponsor


"You're so sweet... Let's keep in touch!" --People Who Signed My Yearbook in High School


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